I am in the middle of a VERY ugly custody battle and have been wondering how the father knows everything. After reading your posts, I have a Blackberry, I am almost convinced that I have spyware on my phone. It does ALL of the warning signs you listed.
My question is ... which cell phones are the safest? Are there any out there that are not spyware compatible? I have AT&T and would even be willing to buy a phone off ebay or somewhere to ensure my privacy.
The only features I want on a cell is a camera and a full keyboard. I don't want to spend a lot of money on a new phone and would like to avoid a 2 year contract if possible but if I have to .. then I will. Most of the phones I see on EBay say .. "unlocked" and from what I gathered on the Internet .. that is a bad thing as far as spyware is concerned.
Thank you for any help and God Speed!