Flexispy sounds very cool. However the target phone isn't a windows mobile phone. And the user doesn't want one. Is there any way to spy on non-windows mobile/blackberry/iphone/symbian phones? Bluetooth for example? I read your post on not buying estealth (thank God because I almost did), but is there anything else I can do? I have a few ideas I need to bounce off someone, so here goes...all hypothetical situations....

put a digital voice recorder in vehicle
use call recording service (recordia) to record inbound

what do you think about these things? goofy? will it work? I need to do something.